Computer Security
Make sure you have some kind of computer security before hitting the dating sites. You should have both a firewall and an anti-virus program for your email and when you browse the dating sites. A free firewall is made by Zone Alarm and a free anti-virus program is AVG.
Protect Yourself
Take care of yourself, too, by choosing appropriate dating sites. Seek and choose a reputable online dating service. How? Begin by asking around with friends, neighbors, co-workers and others you may know who have tried online dating, and see which places they recommend. In addition, search “online dating services” and keep a notebook of their URLs or website links, the fees, rules and regulations, complete contact information of each and any other useful information that spikes your interest. Then compare each place. Try only those places where you feel safe. Avoid the others.
Remember, safety first. Protect your computer and yourself with the right tools and knowledge and you will have a fun experience.
With safety covered, I will now talk about how to build an online relationship. Online relationships need tending to if you want them to grow just like relationships offline.
1. Relationships are about giving time and taking time. Does your prospect try and contact you on a regular basis? Do you do the same? Neglecting online chats, IM, or emails is a form of abuse and neglect. You both should be treating each other with respect. If you are not, then you should end the relationship.
2. Trust takes time. Trust takes time to develop. The speed at which a person can trust depends on their past experiences. Neither of you should be too pushy about when you will meet in person. It is better not to rush the first meeting. Enjoy the time it takes to learn more about each other and work on developing trust first.
3. Respect each others privacy. Do not share personal email addresses or digital photos online, for example, if your online date sent you the information in confidence.
4. Share things both online and offline. Offline – send greeting cards, postcards, and small items from your area (like a picture of your state flower). Online – send greeting cards, links to your favorite websites, photos of your pets, and your favorite music and videos.
Tend your online relationship. Water it with care and over time it can sprout and grow.
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